Wow I get to be first here. Nipple clamps and candles can be lots of fun. My subbie/wife loves her new clover clamps. Candles are a blast too, especially if your Dom is creative. I like to see what kind of designs I can make, it's harder than it looks. Just a friendly warning, scented candles have a tendency to be HOT, try soft wax unscented for starters and the closer the candle the more intense the sting.