was nice chatting with you in the room, a little advice Id like to give you would be take your time in reading the forums or chatting with others, most of the regs are a friendly bunch and are happy to answer any questions you might have. If you get told "you have to do as I say" then you can bet that its just a troll looking to get off, any play is negotiated beforehand and the details are worked out as to how far things are to go and what you will use as a safe word. A sub always has a choice, dont let anyone say otherwise. hope you find what your looking for and enjoy your time with us