Hi

I'm owned by my SO, but not submissive with other lovers (we're poly). Hope to have some interesting discussions :)

:wave: Welcome to the Library!

Welcome oh giant moth.

It's fascinating what rules couples set in order to feel "faithful" while playing the field. You, if I understand rightly, have vanilla sex with otherloves but you'd feel unfaithful if you subbed to them: contrariwise, we reckon it's OK for me to dom other women so long as I don't fuck them (and anything goes with men). One of my subs tells me that he and his wife have an agreement that he can play with men and she can play with women.

I look forward to hearing other people's rules.

*shudders*

Welcome to the Library.

Wellcome to the site!!!

We are so very happy to have you here. The forums are full of great information, as well as having a very nice personels section and chatroom.

There is also an awsome Tasking Society for those wishing to learn just how to give and or preform commands.

Feel free to pm any of the staff or myself with conserns or questions, we are more than willing to lend a hand.

Hope to see more of you soon.
Have lots of fun exploring the site!!


Hugs and kissess,
denuseri

:welcomebo

Welcome to the Library

Hello and welcome to the library :wave:

A very hearty welcome from a Texas sub.

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Originally Posted by leo9

It's fascinating what rules couples set in order to feel "faithful" while playing the field. You, if I understand rightly, have vanilla sex with otherloves but you'd feel unfaithful if you subbed to them: contrariwise, we reckon it's OK for me to dom other women so long as I don't fuck them (and anything goes with men). One of my subs tells me that he and his wife have an agreement that he can play with men and she can play with women.

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Well, I top other lovers at will and there's a certain amount of bottoming I can do, depending, but I am owned by him alone. The power dynamic in our relationship extends past our sex life, which is not the case in other relationships -- even if I let another lover spank me or tie me up during a scene, that doesn't make me their property, and I don't get involved with people who can't respect the fact that my husband/owner has final say in whatever I do, with him or with other people.

Some close friends have a similar situation; they are in a relationship where the sub may sexually dominate other lovers if he wishes, but is not to submit (sexually or otherwise) to anyone else but his dom, who retains the right to determine what his sub can or can't do in the bedroom.

Thanks for the welcome, everybody!

I should also mention that my husband was way more experienced with the life than I was when we met. He's been really patient and has taught me a lot, including encouraging me to admit that yeah, I have dominant tendencies as well.

But as for being submissive to him 24/7, no questions there. I'm really happy with how that's turned out :D

greetings Miss and welcome to the library :)

:wel mothra


pssst, stay away from the flame and watch out for Rhodan.

Hello and :wel to the Forums

Hi and welcome to the site, I am sure you will find it fun and informative!