Intro from a Vanilla Wife

Hello to you all! :wave:

Like my title said... I'm a vanilla wife. Been married to my one true love for over 16 years and am still very much in love with my man and quite content, for the most part - BUT - so very much in need of ideas to jump-start what has become an extremely boring sex-life.

I know he, "hubby" feels the same but he clearly doesn't have the ambition to make any changes himself so I thought I'd see what I can come up with that he and I might both feel comfortable with.

I hope to get a few ideas here that will enable us spice up our relationship in ways that will make the next 16 years much more enjoyable for both of us.

Cassy

Hi & welcome Cassy, nice intro.

16 years eh? Good effort. :)

Yes well there's lots of good ideas on this forum if you look around & many people enjoy being a sub/Dom or just playing with some nice soft ropes.

Have a good look around & see what you can find- there's something for everyone. If you're interested in learning about just what D/s is, check you www.submissiveloving.com

Feel free to ask questions either on the forum or in PMs. :wave:


Tojo

Greetings cassy and welcome to the forums.

And don't forget... you can be sub or domme or both...

Hey!! What am I saying?

Welcome to the forum.

And you can just role play. Lots of good ideas here for that too.

Enjoy cassy

Welcome, Cassy! May you find what you seek :)
-elyse

Hello Cassy and :wel

A great introduction to yourself and I hope you find what you are looking for. Have a meander through the knowledge base and my BDSM life forums and I am sure you will not be able to fail to find some ideas which tease you, and do not be afraid to start your own threads if there is anything you would like to discuss. It would be nice if you also join in with the other Forums too...in otherwords, jump in and have fun.

cariad

Hello and Welcome Cassy!

Coming here was a big step for you and I know you will come up with some ideas for you and hubby to try out.
Stop in the chatroom too. There are quite a few people in vanilla marriages that might have some thoughts to share.

Curi

cassy - welcome to the forms. Your request for information fits right in with the suggestions that everyone suggested.

The title of the webpage I am going to provide a link to, is nearly word for word what you requested.

BDSM Senarios: Ideas to spark your sex life
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm_scenarios.html

Do enjoy!

V/R
ID

Welcome Cassy :)

Thank you all so much for the warm welcome, suggestions, encouragement and tips. I've been all over the site, perusing posts and finding lots of helpful information - provided by what seems to me to be an exceptionally intelligent membership.

Damn refreshing!

Welcome aboard. I hope you find just what you need from this place.

Hello cassie and welcome to the forums : ) have fun !!!

Hi and welcome Cassy,

You have picked a great forum to explore, with wonderful caring and interesting people.

Good luck and have fun.

Aussiegirl

:welcomebo