What is a good starting point for a new Dom to focus on. I realize that being a submissive is easy. Its just who I am, but to be a Dom and a good one, i assume takes work....i.e. training, punishments, psycological effects, etc.....any vanilla can "boss someone around", but a Dom ( such as my Master) makes a submissive want to give Him her gift of submission. How does one know He or She is dominate?
Just curious to the different opinions.....
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