(hope this is the right forum for this)

I am a man, and I try my hand at writing stories here. I have been justly criticised in the past for the description of the participants in my stories. I usually end up writing a lavish, (hopefully) erotic description of the woman involved and then pretty much end up adding "oh, and there was a guy there too. He had brown hair". Which, understandably, leaves any women reading the story a bit short-changed.

I'm currently writing another story where a man and a woman meet up and I want to break this pattern, by trying to describe the guy. Now I can imagine a guy in my head and produce a physical description, but I guess what I really want to do is provide an erotic description of him, as a desirable man. So I want to ask the women on this forum what I should be looking to describe.

So what should I be looking to mention? His eyes, his smile, the shape of his face, the style of his hair? It gets trickier (in my opinion) when I need to describe him naked - should I mention the texture of his skin, the amount of hair, the tone of his muscles, the shape of his ass?

I must admit this probably reveals a lack of knowledge about what women are looking for in real-life (but hey, that's even better to learn!). I've always been happy enough that they'll sleep with me and don't run away when I get naked that I wasn't too concerned about the particulars

All responses welcome, from women or knowledgeable men (or any gay men, for that matter).

Edit: Something I forgot to mention - does it make any difference to the answer whether he's a sub or a dom?