Alright I have never started a thread before and am actually really nervous to do this. However, since I can't get on the chat room I thought I would browse the forums and decided to post one... anyways

I am utterly and completely SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED... I am going to give a little background history first and then I will ask my question, the history is needed so you can understand the context of my question

First off let me express within the vanilla lifestyle I am by no means lacking sexual experience.. I have been around the block more the once perhaps 30 times or so.. I have had multiple partner sex, all sorts of sexual positions, vaginal, anal, oral sex.. I have constant fantasies about BDSM sex, I know I enjoy pain to agree and definently humiliation.. I tend to get myself into bad vanilla sexual situations to try to fulfill these needs of mine... Where i live it is difficult to find people within the lifestyle and i am going to attend a munch but its 2 hrs from where i live if you can see my predicament with that.. anyways i have not had a actual caring relationship in about 2-3 yrs.. i basically just have casual sex, to the point it has become an addiciton..

The point of all this is as much sex as i have had and as many different types i have NEVER been able to cum from another person.. i have only had a PG 13 experience with women but i do have bisexual curiosities as well... i can come from myself in about a minute.. my question is ...

Has anyone else had this problem? Do u think it may be a physical problem, emotionally, not fulfilling my BDSM needs.. i am desperate i would just like some real sexual gratification, instead of just jumping from guy to guy to try to fulfill it?