I am a Dom who is just starting out. I am a lesbian and my last girlfriend introduced me to the Dom/sub relationship. She was a very good teacher (I believe that subs can teach Doms just as well as Doms teach subs) but we broke up a month ago and I am looking for ways to improve and to learn more about BDSM as we only began to explor my Dom side three months ago. So if anyone would like to talk I would enjoy speaking with you and Dom, sub or switch I am willing to listen to any advice you have.