Ok - I'm new here ... this is the third time I've said it - lol ...it pays to advertise. But don't think of me as a potential sub/slave ... that's not for me.

To save you searching, I said I was here because I wanted to learn a bit more about this lifestyle. I've always wondered about it, but never met anyone who shared the same curiosity. Of course I've seen the "documentaries" on tv ... and of course I've seen the pornography, but, d'you know what? I don't think they paint a true picture!

Anyway, I've left it so late in life now, that probably the only answers I'll get will be over the internet ... so here I am ...tell me. Who is willing to tell me what it's really all about?