Hello to you all!
Like my title said... I'm a vanilla wife. Been married to my one true love for over 16 years and am still very much in love with my man and quite content, for the most part - BUT - so very much in need of ideas to jump-start what has become an extremely boring sex-life.
I know he, "hubby" feels the same but he clearly doesn't have the ambition to make any changes himself so I thought I'd see what I can come up with that he and I might both feel comfortable with.
I hope to get a few ideas here that will enable us spice up our relationship in ways that will make the next 16 years much more enjoyable for both of us.
Cassy
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10-11-2006 #1BDSM Apprentice
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10-11-2006 #2Registered User
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Hi & welcome Cassy, nice intro.
16 years eh? Good effort.
Yes well there's lots of good ideas on this forum if you look around & many people enjoy being a sub/Dom or just playing with some nice soft ropes.
Have a good look around & see what you can find- there's something for everyone. If you're interested in learning about just what D/s is, check you www.submissiveloving.com
Feel free to ask questions either on the forum or in PMs.
TojoHappy to support new (& experienced) subs/Doms in any way I can.
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Greetings cassy and welcome to the forums.
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10-11-2006 #4Away
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And don't forget... you can be sub or domme or both...
Hey!! What am I saying?
Welcome to the forum.The Wizard of Ahhhhhhhs
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10-11-2006 #5Away
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And you can just role play. Lots of good ideas here for that too.
Enjoy cassyThe Wizard of Ahhhhhhhs
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10-11-2006 #6kitsune
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Welcome, Cassy! May you find what you seek
-elyseI have always known
that at last
I would
take this road,
but yesterday
I did not know
that it would be
today.
~~ Narihira, 9th century Japanese poetess
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10-11-2006 #7cariadGuest
Hello Cassy and
A great introduction to yourself and I hope you find what you are looking for. Have a meander through the knowledge base and my BDSM life forums and I am sure you will not be able to fail to find some ideas which tease you, and do not be afraid to start your own threads if there is anything you would like to discuss. It would be nice if you also join in with the other Forums too...in otherwords, jump in and have fun.
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10-11-2006 #8Curi
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Hello and Welcome Cassy!
Coming here was a big step for you and I know you will come up with some ideas for you and hubby to try out.
Stop in the chatroom too. There are quite a few people in vanilla marriages that might have some thoughts to share.
Curi
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10-12-2006 #9
cassy - welcome to the forms. Your request for information fits right in with the suggestions that everyone suggested.
The title of the webpage I am going to provide a link to, is nearly word for word what you requested.
BDSM Senarios: Ideas to spark your sex life
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm_scenarios.html
Do enjoy!
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Welcome Cassy
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10-13-2006 #11BDSM Apprentice
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Thank you all so much for the warm welcome, suggestions, encouragement and tips. I've been all over the site, perusing posts and finding lots of helpful information - provided by what seems to me to be an exceptionally intelligent membership.
Damn refreshing!
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Welcome aboard. I hope you find just what you need from this place.
Mit diesem Herz hab ich die Macht
die Augenlider zu erpressen
ich singe bis der Tag erwacht
ein heller Schein am Firmament
Mein Herz brennt
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Hello cassie and welcome to the forums : ) have fun !!!
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10-15-2006 #14Head Greeter
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Hi and welcome Cassy,
You have picked a great forum to explore, with wonderful caring and interesting people.
Good luck and have fun.
AussiegirlLearning more each day!
So very happy to be loved by Warbaby. ~
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Once you put your hand in the flame,
You can never be the same.
There's a certain satisfaction
In a little bit of pain.
I can see you understand.
I can tell that you're the same.
If you're afraid, well, rise above.
I only hurt the ones I love.
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