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    Why I am Here

    There are times when, I truly have no idea why, I need to stay away, but I cannot.
    I do know that I am submissive and have been for quite some time. I suppressed these thoughts for the better part of my life, until now that is.
    I strongly feel that something is lacking and a void needs to be filled.
    I currently live with a Vanilla boyfriend who definately does not share my passion for this lifesyle.
    I have been here for a short while and have been enjoying the stories and posts.
    For now I am only hoping to meet with people who share my interest in this lifestyle, while I try to sort out what to do with my relationship and my need to be submissive.
    And yes I will be asking for advice and have many questions on certain aspects of this lifestyle.
    Thanks
    aria

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    Hiya and a warm to the forums! This is a great place to learn and share - I'm sure you'll find new friends if you stick around.
    Will sub for hugs!

    - If you wish to travel far and fast, travel light.
    Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness and fears. -
    Glenn Clark

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    welcome to the family...
    I choose to live a life of right action in service

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    Will sub for chocolate
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    Hi aria! Welcome to the forums!

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    Welcome aria! Glad to see you in the chat too.

    Curi

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    welcome to the forums!! have fun

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    Hello aria and big gentle hug of welcome.

    Welcome to forums but perhaps more importantly welcome to the part of yourself which you are discovering.

    I am pleased you have found yourself here, because this is a caring community and people are ready and eager to give you as much love and support as you could wish for.

    Take your time and enjoy as you slowly discover which bits of this lifestyle are right for you, and hopefully find that most of us only have one head!

    But I do feel it is only right to add a caveat to my welcome, the public part of this forum, i.e. what is posted is carefully watched over by a team of moderators, what happens in Private Messages is not. There are people who join this site who are not as gentle and friendly as we are, so if you recieve PM's from people who make you feel uncomfortable in anyway, please, please do not run away, but just forward the PM's to Rabbit, Aesop or one of the moderating team and let us be your BDSM Mom or Dad during these early months.

    Wishing you a fun time here in forums and chat

    cariad


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    A big hearty welcome to you, aria. Thank you for that informative intro Enjoy it here!

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    hi aria welcome


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    Have whip will travel. Your pain is my pleasure.

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    Greetings and welcome to the forums, aria.
    ____________________________________________

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    Welcome aria!

    This is an awesome, warm and caring community. You came to the right place where you can be yourself, where no one will judge you.

    Cariad gave you some great advice!


    Have fun and enjoy yourself

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    Once you put your hand in the flame,
    You can never be the same.
    There's a certain satisfaction
    In a little bit of pain.
    I can see you understand.
    I can tell that you're the same.
    If you're afraid, well, rise above.
    I only hurt the ones I love.

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    Welcome to the forums aria_1,

    Thank you for being so open in your welcome, I have found that to be the best way of finding out who you are. Good luck in your search.

    Aussiegirl
    Learning more each day!

    So very happy to be loved by Warbaby. ~

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    welcome to the forums matey!
    My Stories as Shannon J. Cole
    My Stories as Shannon.J.Cole



    subby sheep to a domly duckie *giggles*

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    Welcome. Ah so this is who my popcorn couch buddy in chat is. *hugsss* Nice meeting you in this more welcoming setting. If you would like to talk about anything or have and questions just ask!

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    Hi & welcome aria- lovely intro.

    Don't worry, we've all gone through feelings of uncertainty- the whole world is telling us we're bad after all!

    Being bad feels pretty good though eh?

    Hope you enjoy it here.


    Tojo
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    his naughty girl
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    Hi aria

    Welcome to the forums, and the best of luck sorting through your feelings and your life! It can be done!
    learningtopleez

    I could spend my life in this sweet surrender... Aerosmith

    ~ltp~

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    Hello, aria, and welcome to the forums!
    I have always known
    that at last
    I would
    take this road,
    but yesterday
    I did not know
    that it would be
    today.

    ~~ Narihira, 9th century Japanese poetess



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