hello from down south, i'm new to forums and although i've fantasized for ever, i'm also new to bdsm, been with a very vanilla man for 18 of my 36 yrs, love him with all my heart but can't help feeling, like i'm missing out on a very important part of my sexuality. i read and write dark erotica for fun, and i hope to meet some new friends that will help me to explore and celebrate my submissiveness in a more gratifying way.![]()