Jus wanted to say hi.....I am very happily married and I am not here to play online or in real time. My husband and I play alone. I do not know if you would say I am part of the lifestyle or not. My husband and I have been playing for about 12 years (married 25). As the children have now left the nest I find that we tend to play more out of the bedroom as well. I guess I am here for two reasons. First, NOT a sole in my life knows and it would be nice to be around people that do not make me feel twisted every time a new book comes out or something is in the news . Second reason is to learn. I hope that you will all except me under those circumstances. Thanks. PS...I am 50 and have only ever talked about this with my husband so please bare with me, on the lingo and edict. Thanks