Although I agree with the others that this topic is far too serious to discuss during a BDSM session, you could use BDSM to help her work on her indecisiveness in general if that is a character trait of hers. You can create little subbie dilemmas for her, and force her to make choices. For example, one of my dom's favorites since he knows I hate to beg - is to tease me relentlessly and then tell me I can beg to be allowed to orgasm or beg for him to stop teasing me - my choice. You could have her choose between two implements of torture, between 5 days of orgasm denial or hours of forced orgasms, etc. The point is to force her to make difficult decisions about your play situtations.

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