Hello aria and big gentle hug of welcome.

Welcome to forums but perhaps more importantly welcome to the part of yourself which you are discovering.

I am pleased you have found yourself here, because this is a caring community and people are ready and eager to give you as much love and support as you could wish for.

Take your time and enjoy as you slowly discover which bits of this lifestyle are right for you, and hopefully find that most of us only have one head!

But I do feel it is only right to add a caveat to my welcome, the public part of this forum, i.e. what is posted is carefully watched over by a team of moderators, what happens in Private Messages is not. There are people who join this site who are not as gentle and friendly as we are, so if you recieve PM's from people who make you feel uncomfortable in anyway, please, please do not run away, but just forward the PM's to Rabbit, Aesop or one of the moderating team and let us be your BDSM Mom or Dad during these early months.

Wishing you a fun time here in forums and chat

cariad