Collage, first marriage, and the real fun begins.

I took a year off after high school and collage to have some fun and enjoy the freedoms of being an adult. This is when I really started to get my feet wet in BDSM and started having some real fun. The nice thing was that just about everyone I met from this time to the end of collage around my age was wanting to experiment with everything.

Unfortunately I made a bad decision (not knowing at that time) and was involved and eventually married someone that ended up being very very vanilla. But, I had a lot of friends and the relationship was on and off for the first two years. Add to that a lot of friends that wanted to know more and came to me for advice and to learn. So I found myself kind of the confidont and teacher of a lot of my friends and their friends in BDSM.

So, even though the girl I was with wanted nothing to do other then lie on her back I was able to teach, learn, and experiment on a lot of my friends. One of the most memorable times that comes to mind was while at a friend’s house for an impromptu party. There was about 20 or so people at the appt and the discussion turned as it always does with collage aged kids to sex.

A male of a couple that I hadn’t met till that night responded to his girl after she had made a crude comment at his expense that she needed a spanking. This lead to my friends that was hosting saying, rather loudly that I could show them a thing or two about that. After a bit of goading and trying to get out of it, I reluctantly stood before most of the party in the living room asking for a volunteer.

As it happened the girl that had made the crude comment jumper up and came to me. I went threw the basics of sensual spanking and punishment spanking and then showed them on her with her standing, bent at the waist holding a chair, and then over my knee. While she was bent over the chair I cracked that the sound is much better when delivered to bare skin and not to tight denim. Before I knew it she had pulled her jeans to her ankles exposing her thong divided ass. This led to woops and hollers of most of the assembled and a few pats of congrats to her guy.

All in all this took about a half hour, and the volunteer was quiet flushed and very horny. After I told her I was done with her, she pulled up her pants, walked (or stumbled) to her guy, kissed him and then they disappeared to somewhere else in the house. Before I knew it I was field questions on everything from wax play to the definitions of BDSM. It was great to have an outlet for all the knowledge that I gathered and learned.

Before the night was out I had answered at least 100 questions and demonstrated flogging, leather clothing care, submissive positions, proper use of cuffs and wax play. All in all it was a great night. I went home with a high that I had not gotten since I jump out of a perfectly good aircraft. The next day I had to tell someone, because my girl wanted to hear nothing about it so I ended up over at my folk’s house. I told them all that had happened and they were quite impressed. They even went as far as to give me some other advice as to how to better show some of the flogging and binding with chain techniques.

As it ended up, I started getting calls from those people at the party as well as other that had heard about it asking questions and wanting to know if I could help them out. The most common one was “how do I talk to my girl/guy about wanting to do this.” Sound familiar anyone?

So all in all, this was a great time for me BDSM wise. How ever, the rest of my life was going down the toilet. But that’s for later, thanks for reading. Feel free to ask any questions, as this shows I love to share and teach.