Awww, Sir Russell, stop being charming! *blushes*

reqspeq, I appreciate it if someone tells honestly what he seeks, instead of raising wrong hopes/expectations. I trust others think along the same lines.

If you only just started, playing with different people may well help you understand what you like or not. Or an experienced slave might teach you, but it may be you two do not like the same things - BDSM has so many sides.
As for finding out about your kicks and orientation, you will find lots of stories here that might point you in the right direction(s), and if you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask - people here tend to be very nice and willing to help.

Kind regards
Arria