Quote Originally Posted by Bald_J_and_F
"Rape fantasies" are like "square circles": By definition impossible. The main point of "rape" is the non-consensuality of it, but as soon as someone dreams of being taken by force it no longer is non-consensual, since it is wanted by the "raped" person, and hence it no longer is rape. What's more, using the word "rape" in this context is a mockery of women who really have been raped. Pfui!
The correct term for what these people dream of is "violent sex", but that has nothing whatever to do with rape.
I really had to reply to this although I didn't want to. I was raped. I was submissive before I was raped and the two things were in NO WAY linked. I have rape fantasies I call them rape fantasies because thats what they are... rape fantasies. I am sure there are women out there who have been victims of sexual assault who are offended by the term "rape fantasy" but people are offended by a lot of things on this site for a lot of reasons.