Quote Originally Posted by KittenStapler
im really freaked out and kinda need support. i get turned on by thinking about being a woman sometimes. i know that im not gay, as i like women not men, but i still have this weird fantasy. i do masturbate to women, but i could masturbate just a well to the thought of having a vagina. this creeps the living hell out of me could you please tell me whether this matters or not or whether women will care? does this mean im a crossdresser? a transvestite? or am i just not thinking realistically? i have had this sick feeling in my gut for the past two months 24/7 and i just started worrying about it then. will somebody please help? :help:

Ok I am not sure how long this post has been up but I thought I would throw in my "expert" thoughts here.

I teach workshops on what is trans and diversity as well as sensitivity training workshops. Cross dresser is someone who likes to wear the opposite sex clothing for emotional release. Being a crossdresser has nothing to do with wishing you were of the opposite gender in any way shape or form.

Transvestite is someone who dresses in the opposite clothing for sexual pleasure. Being a transvestite like being a cross dresser has nothing at all to do with wishing you were of the opposite gender, or evening thinking of yourself as having a viginia.

Transexuals and Transgenders are those who think of their bodies as being different from their birth gender, who who wishes they were of the opposite gender. Transexuals go though the surgery and are normally males becoming female. transgenders are normally female to males who are in the process of going though the surgery and taking testrone. However, these days transexuals and transgender can be used for either mtf or ftm, the only differences is transexual is one who has gone though the surgery or are planning on going though with the surgery. Transgender is one who has not gone though the surgery of changing their gentials over.

As for if you are any one of these, only you can decide.

If you have any more questions please feel free to ask:

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