why?

[Tojo]

Welcome, Morgan.

Somehow I think you know the answer to those questions...

I have a question myself- why would anyone associate with such a 'Dom?'


Tojo

[morganlefay]

thank you Tojo for your response...as to why i asked the question? not everyone shares your view....i need to know for myself that if there is anything i need to work on as a sub that i do.....i dont want to assume i am right and torture anyone else with my nonsense...
just need to be fair and have it confirmed by someone with more experience that i am not asking things i shouldnt ask
thank you again.
me

[Tojo]

Oh I think you can assume you're right about one thing Morgan, that you know what you want & what's best for you.

My personal opinion is that there are no rules in a D/s relationship. It's something two people have to work out to their mutual satisfaction. An opinion I know is shared by many people.

Hey don't forget this is meant to be fun? If not- something isn't right.

Hope it all works out- please keep us posted on how you're going.




Tojo

[Alex Bragi]

Hello, morganlefay. Welcome to the family.

Welcome, Morgan.

Somehow I think you know the answer to those questions...

I have a question myself- why would anyone associate with such a 'Dom?'


Tojo

Tojo, has taken the words right out of my mouth.

I think you use the description "dom" rather loosely here, too. Although, I do agree, every relationship is different. I used to chat regularly, on line, with a lady who used to actually enjoy being beaten up; I mean black and blue beaten up. That's a hard on for me to fathom, but I guess everyone's different.

Remember too the three pillars of BDSM: Safe, sane, and consensual. It sounds to me, although I don't have his side of if, like at least two of those components were missing.

I wish you well in the future.

Alex