I agree with Gem here. I personally would not go after a Dom who was married, because I would want someone who could focus all his attention onto me. I'm selfish that way. I had enough of a difficult time with Doms who had other subs besides myself. So I would not be able to deal with the Dom having a wife as well. This is just my opinion, however. I'm sure there are subs out there who have no problem being with a married man. I am not one of those subs.