This is really a non-issue. You already have a family. When a doctor advised you not to have any more children, you obviously took the advice very seriously. If this "master" doesn't care that you can't be bred without risk of death, thereby making your husband a widower and your child an orphan, he has absolutely no respect or concern for either you or your family. When a fantasy begins to turn reality into a nightmare, it's time to wake up and smell the Folgers.