the only way i ussually deal with it is ussually afterwards by pacing and having cigarettes, rehydration, replaying through my head everything and rembering how much i love it, how much i loved pleasing him, how great and fifilling it was, eventually i get back into a mind set attuned to my submission (re-organizing priorities and re-proccessing in my head is key for me)
unless i hit subdrop then its bad for the better part of the nite, and i need help to get out sometimes, just being able to slide into bed and hold and be held after
but i am a little wierd i hate cuddeling after sex, i allways need to get up and move around a lot after, if i am gonna snuggle its much later after ive settled down