Have you asked where they've registered for china, crystal, etc.? If they haven't, you're kind of on your own. If you don't like to give cash, you could always get them a gift certificate to their favorite restaurant or commodities store. If they like to cook, get them a fabulous new kitchen gadget. No one ever has enough linens, i.e. sheets, blankets, towels. You didn't tell us what they like, so....just throwing stuff out there.