wellcome to the site both of u

i reccomend comunication of your feelings to each other, between a journal and Oz's advise you have a good idea

also read the forums

the forums are full of great information on bdsm, that you will both find useful

feel free to pm any of the staff or myself with conserns or questions, we are more than willing to lend a hand

hope to see more of you soon
have lots of fun exploring the site
hugs and kissess
denuseri