anal

[lozzy]

mmm yum. i also quite enjoy anal, and in my relationship its never ever been used as a 'real' punishment, although we do often play little games when I'm being a bit bratty and he threatens it - to which of course i just play up more!

The first time i did it though was in a backpackers hostel, in the toilets when we were both raging drunk and the guy i was with... uhm... missed the right hole. That wasnt a pleasant start. The second time was worse as well - i ended up bleeding from the chafing because we went too quickly.


But my current boyfriend and i went for 'third time lucky' and omg im SO glad we did!!! yum yum yumm!!!

[hotfirefly]

I echo a lot of the sentiments so far that anal can be very great. It feels like the ultimate submission. I feel completely owned and possessed.

I do have to be really in the submissive head-space and very, very turned on. Sometimes a little alcohol doesn't hurt either. Just enough that I feel my inhibitions loosen. but you've got to be careful not to have too much because then you might not feel pain that is telling you to slow down.

Lubrication is also very important. Master usually has me lube myself up. It feels a little humiliating, a lot naughty, and just gets me in the mood even more. I'd recommend a towel underneath as well, things can get slippery.