Hi, I'm Desperadosong.... AKA: Kaza. I'm not real good at this intro thing, but will give it a whirl. I was introduced to the lifestyle when I was 23 by a man I was seeing (and eventually married). Although that didn't work out, and we divorced, I stayed with the lifestyle until a year or so ago. I'm not 'nilla.... I just took time to step back and do some introspecting. There was a time when I went to all the munches, and a couple semi-private play parties.... that was back before they turned into nothing more than a real life version of most online chat rooms. Maybe being single so long has had it's effects, I'm not sure... guess that's part of the introspection thing.

Kaza