My signifgant other was in the same situation as you, she was in hopice care in my apartment as she could no longer takecare ofherslef, it was thre hardest thing i ever did,
after 25 days they had to move her do to my inabiltiy to takecare of her anymore, to emotionaly trainnig, 10 daysaftershe was moved she deterioated to being paced in a hospice at the hospital and died 2 days later, that was March of 2006, i am now nowhere near getting overdealing with either her passing or my inability at the end to continue to try and comforther
I talk to the head of the Hospice and 2 nurses their and a Social Worker and they all told me the same thing
"everyone griefs in different way for diffrent lengths of time"
all i can say is do thebest and what I did was rather then "cry" over her passing, I celelbrated her life and rmemberd all te good times we had i even picked out a soung for us by Bobby Goldbouro called "Honey" as i listen thefirst thing that came to my mind was "Yes, that was exatly How Sandra was" helped a little
Givei t time and rmember th good time and celebtrare thir life






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