ohhh.....nono...this is not a "LDR"... Long Distance Relationship(?)....he lives very close to me, in fact, practically the same neighborhood....and we have met many times... i just meant we are not together as Dom/subbie...we are just exploring each other right now, although he does intend that our relationship will definitelty be that of a Dom/submissive eventually. and we haven't even fucked yet. sorry to be so blunt, but that is what i meant when i said we are not together physically... it took me a while because i was not sure what "LDR" meant. he is traveling in another state at the moment, although he will return very soon...