Is this a preference or something else?

[craven]

though braced, i did not feel as shocked as perhaps your statement had led me to believe i might perhaps be ..... hmmmmmmm

food for thought indeed you obviously sound like a switch that is very much toward the dominant end of the spectrum, or maybe has yet to find that connection with a dom that changes your perspective.

there could be many ways to explain how you feel, i am at a loss as to why i feel the way i do in relation to people, some i feel dominant to, others submissive, there is no hard and fast rule.

do you think that domming a sub provides you as a individual with something that you need or seek and that as a submissive you dont obtain from your Ds relationships then?

We are all different, which is the true wonder of it all, and the beauty of being able to switch