Hahaha, I know so well what you mean! When I first met hubby, he told me he would get me to a point where he would only touch me once, and I´d be ready for him (yeah right, I thought, what a horrible show-off... in your dreams... etc.)

Until I met him - yea well, I don´t know, I always was vaguely (or not so vaguely) unsatisfied... and it was the men who needed "it" more than I did, and I used that against them. to get what I want, more than once - no, to be honest, quite often.

Hubby was the first one who had more self-control than me in that direction, and he was the first and only who got me so greedy I overcame all pride and actually BEGGED for it (oh, how that hurt my pride is beyond description...).

I learned from various other subs that their dom has the same effect on them.

Apparently the (sometimes cursed!) self-control, together with amazing sexual abilities, is one of the things that mark a good dom...

I used to be able to live without sex for extended periods of time, but well, that only holds true until you met the one guy with whom you REALLY had fun... after that, you will miss it and seek it if it is not there.

I also used to look down on men very seriously because of their need for sex, and for their lack of self-control and pride in that area... I used to think women could never be as embarrassing and greedy.
Far from it.
Women can be a hundred times more embarrassing and needy... if the man knows how to handle them.