this question is about having the bdsm D/s dynamic in real life and practicle boundaries to that. My partner and I are exploring BDSM as a part of our real life relationship; he feels inclined toward Dom and I am toward sub but as we try to find our boundaries and how far we want this to be a part of our everyday existance we come to places where we butt heads so i thought i would ask how you all balance your normal everyday life (work, kids, school, friendships) with this lifestyle and more specifically the sub aspect. Any and all insight is so greatly appreciated!!!Thank you!