Hi kd. Nice to meet you. I guess that implicit in my mentionning that I do like to look is the fact that there is a part of me that would like to touch as well and be touched. I had one experience that I have thought of many many times where a drunken female friend of me licked my pussy. We were interrupted and never did it again. I am married and in a monogamous relationship. I would love to think that my husband and I could be swingers. I like the idea, but I don't think that it would work out. I'd be so jealous and insecure. Maybe sometime in the future. We've been married for 13 years, together for 15, and last year was a rocky one for us. Who knows. We've had both vanilla and BDSM sex, but almost exclusively BDSM sex for about nine months.

So, how do you deal with swinging? Don't you have difficulties with jealousies and insecurities?