people have basically said what i want to say but the idea of and Dom/me saying stuff like that quite frankly made me angry. and i dont get angry often, sure i get annoyed but not angry.
unless you have had a very long complex in depth talk with your Dom/me then they dont know the reason why hard limits are infact that, hard limits. if you really dont want to do something there IS a reason behind it. even if its just a gut feeling its still a reason and tbh with you i have found my gut feeling is right most of the time - hmm that sounds odd - i listen to my gut but i digress.

you should really run, and run a mile
no sub should have to do something just because their Dom/me tells them to. as many people have said, wheres the respect?
honestly do you really want to submit to someone that obviously has no idea of the word or how to treat a submissive with it. just because you submit, maybe just in play or maybe 24/7 doesnt mean you dont deserve respect. more so infact because its not easy to hand over your trust to someone, to let someone in to something so private.

look after yourself, please, you should be at the top of your concerns. its your life!!!!

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