Hi I have been slowly looking for a new sub. I am concerned that she not only feel safe but know she is safe. what to do, you both fill out a contract of what will not be allowed and what will be allowed. includig safe words. You exchange docu ments photos, id licence etc. and place them in a private safety box of your own. the contract will be in there with the other persons docutments.
I love the outdoors, always carry a GPS incase of emergency. The key is to get to know your dom or sub before meeting. The last thing I want in a sub is someone who is not connected to me. A sub and I should feel a connection. In other words you like the person. go with your gut.