I always end up going to parties in stret clothes with a bag of stuff I 'might' wear then when everyone starts coming out in latex, silk and leather, I change. you'll feel left out when you're the only one in jeans and a t-shirt lol.

I agree with denu, if you are unsure, go for classy over trashy, every kink community has their own 'thing' when it comes to how ppl like to dress at play parties, so bring some stuff and take your cues from what everyone else starts changing into later in the evening.

I go for a 'dolly' look with a knee length skirt & petti sometimes or a corset with a miniskirt etc. it's all about how you feel that evening too lol.