Hi kara

This is a very good question and i'm sure that you'll get many responses from it. As someone else that doesn't feel like "switching" is something i'd be very good at, i do however, feel that it's very important for submissive/slaves AND Doms/Dommes to do so on occasion if for no other reason that you learn what Y/your partner's feelings and responsibilities are like in the perspective positions. For example, i think a submissive who had topped someone per request of her Dom or just to try it has a much better appreciation for what his/her Dom/Domme/Master go through on a daily basis to try to assure our well being and happiness. Not an easy job trying to take care of the subbies and quite often the effort that goes into it is not appreciated properly.

I also feel that Doms/Dommes/Masters who have experienced submission also understand better the complex trust issues, fears, and overwhelming emotion that Their submissives can experience. All in all, i think it is impossible not to evolve as O/one remains in the lifestyle. There is always room to grow personally and in Y/your chosen relationship.

As always, posted respectfully and in my opinion only

tyd