Can W/we evolve in this lifestyle?

[Ozme52]

Too bad.... I came to discuss growth within the lifestyle, not realizing that for some reason there is an implication that evolving means growing out of ones orientation.

I for one am not able to evolve into anything else ...

It cuts to the heart of the issue of what's better, else why use "evolve"? Do you feel one orientation is better than the next? Are you unsure of your master's perspective? Do you feel somehow he was testing to see if you are content in your role, being subservient? Do you think he sees one role as better?

Well, in my opion there is no "better" role nor "better" orientation. Each serves a need (within oneself and between/amongst partners.) So my answer to your question is "No", we can't evolve within the lifestyle.

We can however learn. Learn more about ourselves. Learn more about our relationships. Learn more about what's available to us within the lifestyle.