Quote Originally Posted by Qza View Post
So my question. Is a slave justified in leaving a Master if he dosent offer her a collar after a sufficient amount of time has passed and she has done all in her power to prove she is worthy of it? Do you know of anyone who lost his sub/slave to another master and now is having a "beyonce" moment
I don't know of anyone who has done this but I believe that in such a scenario, yes, a sub/slave would be justified in leaving.

The best way to look at these sorts of situations is to stop thinking in a 'D/s' sense all the time. If people have been 'dating' for a certain amount of time, but not exclusively, and one of them wants to be exclusive and is 'ready to commit' to a relationship but the other is not or really not looking for that sort of thing at the moment, then the former is well within their rights to go find someone who is.

You have to be on the same page when it comes to these things, nobody should be made to wait forever for something that won't happen. Also because there are people out there who will continually say "I'm still thinking about it" but really they aren't and just wanna keep you around without 'committing'.

On the flip side, what if you were in the reverse position? How would you feel if you just wanted play partners but one of them really wants to be more or exclusive... wouldn't you want that person to go find someone who could satisfy them in that sense than stick around and be disappointed by you?