wax it will have a little pain at first but if you take some ibuprofen before you go in it will help. over time you will not have to get waxed as often and it will grown in softer and lighter. i have been waxing for over a year now and i can go 8 weeks before i need to go in and get waxed again. if you do have problems shaving look in to some of the natural stuff that you can find sometimes they are the best.