i have 16 tattoos and 2 of them r for my dom. the one that reps our bdsm relationship is a gaged and bound woman on the top of my thigh an don the side is one playin with her self under her clothes on the upper inside says Ryan's sex kitten. it covers 3/4th of my upper thigh. to most that might be extream but ink is part of our relationship. its quite taseful and only something he sees. to each their own they r pretty much a forever thing, but so is my husband.