one thing i hope to do is rediscover my fetishes and desires.
is there a list here at the library to help me ... a have you done this;
do you like that; would you try the other sort of thing?

i have been reading profiles and so often i find myself saying, yes,
that's how i feel or that's what i like, but i have not been able to put in
my own words just yet. this quote especially spoke to me..."I am fascinated by the spell-like qualities of BDSM, the psychology, the addiction, the circle of power, etc. I did not go looking for this, but once it found me, it opened up a door inside of me that most likely had been there all along...I just didn't have words for it." obviously i still don't have my own words for my desires as yet but i think i am in the right place and among the right company to find them.

thank you for your input,
soft


(i hope the Person i quoted does not mind that i borrowed His words)