It's only been a month, and you're already giving up?! I've read both of your threads. It sounds like you expect your husband to do a 360-degree spin and then go from 0-60 miles per hour in 5.2 seconds. LOL First of all, you need to slow down. There's a lot to learn, and it takes time. Read some books together and discuss them. If he's adamant about not being interested, you can't force him to change.