Desire is rooted in mystery and unraveling it is all the fun - at least for the kind of Dominant that makes this particular girl ache, however I have to preface my seemingly desperate plea for companionship with a disclaimer to weed out potential haters:

I'm what the internet likes to call a BBW.

You know, those girls who aren't molded from magazines and airbrushed?

The ones who have hips and thighs and breasts and dare I say it? Have .. FAT!

*gasp*

Yes, I'm a chubby little girl. Oh my.

If you don't like chubby, pretty, submissive little girls with nice lips, green eyes and wickedly brilliant minds - move along, I'm not the girl for you.

Now that that's said and 99% of the men who have viewed this have closed it already because they're superficial fucks, let me move on to those of you who actually are interested in what I have to say.

I'm 31. I'm 5'5", pierced in a few places. I have black, longish hair. I'm shy. I enjoy art, music, literature and nature. I love animals. I can be quite sarcastic (see above!). I love horror movies and psychological thrillers. I dig crossword puzzles. I'm also really into video games. Despite mentioning above that I'm a plus sized woman, I like to live a healthy lifestyle - eat healthy, exercise, etc.

Now for the fun stuff..

It has been a while since I have been in a relationship (all of my relationships have been of the D/s variety, might I add - a nice conversation topic, certainly), and I would like to begin dipping my toes back in .. however, locally, I have no idea where to begin looking for men who are, how shall I say .. like-minded. So here I am, seeking out a devilish, smart, deviant, articulate dominant man who enjoys having long, philosophical conversations and delicious phonesex, who can learn to read me like a book and make me melt by pushing the right buttons. I have been lacking discipline. Routine. Sweet pain. Relinquishing control. I have been lacking many lovely things in my life only a man can provide - even from a distance - given the right dynamic between us. For now, I'm only seeking someone to chat with, online - skype, voice, cam, whatever. If it progresses beyond that, great. I'm open to that. I'm also open to moving. I'm not particularly rooted to my current location. (However, for the sake of disclosure, I'm in Ontario, Canada.)

Fetishes and kinks, I have many - again, something to be discussed, and which I am quite flexible on.

I mostly just miss belonging to someone, somewhere, having an intellectual equal to banter with, yet knowing that after our witty sparring match has ended, it's under his grinding heel that I belong.

To keep things from getting complicated, I have no interest in getting involved in any way, shape or form with married men. Your age is not an issue to me (assuming you are LEGAL, mature and meet my standards).

Interested parties please feel free to send me a private message letting me know why you think we might be a good match, and how I could get in touch with you to perhaps chat some more! (I'm a private person, I would prefer a private message to a response on this thread - thank you!)