Sodomy, sex or submission?

[Rowdy]

isn't it sexual submission?
whenever I ride a gf from behind they always suffer pain and bleeding
she always seems to get off from it
I've never sodomized anyone who didn't give their full consent

[Hime]

It's sex no matter what. But in a BDSM context, I don't think that either giving or receiving anal sex is necessarily submissive OR necessarily dominant.

Let's say I have a hot submissive boyfriend whom I haven't allowed to cum in, say, a week, and I tell him that I'm dying for a good fuck and I want him to do me in the ass -- but he has to wear his cock ring while he does it. Doesn't seem like an act of domination in that case, does it?

[Ozme52]

It's sex no matter what. But in a BDSM context, I don't think that either giving or receiving anal sex is necessarily submissive OR necessarily dominant.

Let's say I have a hot submissive boyfriend whom I haven't allowed to cum in, say, a week, and I tell him that I'm dying for a good fuck and I want him to do me in the ass -- but he has to wear his cock ring while he does it. Doesn't seem like an act of domination in that case, does it?

Certainly not from his perspective.

But yeah Hime. That's hot from the top.

[blythe spirit]

Okay, I'm gonna come in here and be technical. Sodomy is either oral or anal copulation and copulation is "sexual" intercourse; therefore, sodomy is sex. Whilst there's a negative connotation attached to the word, seems that folks were enjoying both the giving and receiving of anal sodomy since bibical times and probably before.

Is it thought to be a submissive act because of the subordinate position? If so, then even entering the vagina from behind would be a submissive act, no?

[Pearlgem]

Can't believe this thread is getting so much mileage. I blame people like me.

[sinderella]

Someone asked this wonderful question in the chatroom
Do you think sodomy is sex or is it a slave submitting to a master?

submission and discipline.

[his_girl_l]

i can only enjoy it in a submissive context.

When i've tried it in a vanilla relationship it just hurt. A lot, and not in a nice way.

But as submission it feels totally different to me, and a lot nicer.

Well, nice might be the wrong word. But much more enjoyable anyway!

[sassy75]

Love Love Love anal!!! I don't know why I wasn't doing it YEARS ago. Have only been doing it about a year now and wow. Awesome!!!! I don't see it as an act of submission since I love it so much. But, in a BDSM sort of way, I guess it could be an act of submission if a Dom really wanted it and was willing to take my ass forcefully

[TwistedTails]

Sex or submission? Either or both all according to my mood at the time.