Damaged Goods

[snowflake]

I like to think it's because I want to take care of people. I hope it's not because I'm taking advantage of you- I don't think it is because I know I care deeply for you, and want you to overcome your problems as be happy, as much as you're able to.

But that's just me, and that's in fact, just me with you.

purrrss... you are so good to me Sir ..

And to be honest that is what i thought .. as you show it every time we talk ... it is just nice to hear/read it sometimes..


hugs
&
Kisses
your little one

[sheila09]

at this point in my life, i don't think it's damage that makes us what we are from the start, even before we've realised it--submissives or slaves. i believe it's a personality type. However...we're extra vulnerable to being misused, and are therefore easily damaged. So we end up in a cycle of sorts.

[LolitaDoll]

So much has already been said but I feel like putting my 2 cents worth in from my own POV.

With the life I've had, things I've experienced and went through - I feel as if I am damaged. I don't have a whole lot of self worth. I take responsibility for anything and everything whether in reality its my fault or not. I feel as if I deserve to be submissive. Not that it is a bad thing, but I don't feel as if I deserve to be on top. At the same time, I need reassurance and support. Not someone that will abuse my feelings and lack of self worth and self confidence. I need someone that would take me, as damaged, and mold me into something beautiful.

So for me, I fit into a 'damaged goods' category. I've grown up damaged and more than likely will always have the burden of certain events on my shoulders.

Hope this makes sense. It makes a lot more sense to me in my head than it does typed out.