Masters Please introduce yourselves here

[Ingvi]

Hi all,

I thought I better add a bit here as well as in the new members intro.

I am a lifestyle Dom with a femsub 's' and we have been together over a year.

I have been into BDSM since my late teens and have been a submissive and also an 'Owned' or 'Collared' slave.

I decided that my dominant side was actually the stronger and decided to put all my efforts there. I am not a switch just a Dom who has tried life on the other side

's' had very little BDSM experience when we met and we have spent the last year exploring many areas of a D/s relationship.

's' is a bit of a self confessed 'pain junkie' now and loves the Tawse and also the Single Tail. We have tried many things and many toys and have yet to find something 's' doesn't like

We have also structured our play and have a lot of control in place.

's' also loves Japanese Bondage and we have spent hours of fun getting her into some extremely beautiful positions.

I'm more than willing to answer questions where I can, and will probably ask more than a few myself!

[Krynn]

Hi to All Masters,

Thanks Aesop I read your "Tips for Beginners" thread,I think if I didn't read that I probally would have dissapeared slowly. Bit more about me ,very new to the sceone,pretty much a shy person but as I get to know people and get more comfortable the more I open up.And yes,really not sure how to go about finding my feet as a dom,any suggestions would be helpful.Don't want charge into the personal section,whithout a decent plan of action.My main fetishs that like feet,high heels, anal play,spankings,wax ,some bodage and but pretty much everything.

[ash]

My partner and i have tried mild forms of master/slave activities but i would like to know how to learn some of things i read in stories on this site.

[BarLord67]

Much like a true submissive, who is instinctively and inherently submissive, it is your natural approach, not necessarily in life as a whole, but certainly in relationships. This does not mean having no boundaries....only those who are truely not dominant have no boundaries.

[MasterPhoenix]

My name is Phoenix.I am a 34 yo male Dom. I am Master to a beautiful 18 yo female sub/slave. I myself am a novice so I am adjusting to the 24/7 lifestyle. She makes it easy to adapt to this lifestyle.

[NCMaster]

Hello.. My name is Ben and am known as NCMaster. I am currently 57 years old and have been actively participating in this BDSM Lifestyle for over 20 years. I am married to My wife/slave and we are very active in the BDSM community in several states. I am also on the Board of Directors of one of the largest BDSM groups in the southeast.

I often do presentations for local groups on various BDSM topics including M/s D/s relationships. I have a close knit Leather Family and enjoy teaching others about the Lifestyle. I am a big believer of each of us having a responsibility to the community. I have written on Lifestyle topics and some of these writtings can be found at the following sites:

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[Platonicus]

While I made a modest introduction in the general introduction thread, I thought I might add one with a bit more detail here.

General: I became interested in D/s a little over six years ago while dating a wonderful girl who in time revealed to me here interest and experience in the lifestyle. Our vanilla relationship was transformed into a D/s relationship after I had read a number of books and web sites that she recommended an we began to experient. Slowly and with great patience she helped me to learn to become an effective Dom who was able to meet her needs as a submissive woman. I learned rather quickly that I enjoyed a D/s relationship much more than any vanilla relationships I had experienced. We remained together up until a few months ago when her employer offered her a career advancing position on the West Coast. While neither of us were happy about going our separate ways, it was an opportunity that she was well suited for and one that I could not bring myself to ask her to pass up. I myself was for several reasons not in the position to relocate. Quickly we arrived at the place where we had to admit that the distance by which we are separated precluded continuing the relationship as it had been although we always remain close friends. Thus, my experience to date is within the context of that one r/l relationship.

Lifestyle Interests: I have a wide range of interests within the lifestyle, some of which I have experienced and others that I hope to. I very much enjoy teasing and denial which I find to be very challenging. While I am not much of a sadist, I do very much enjoy spanking, flogging, etc. from more of an erotic viewpoint rather than from a desier to inflict pain. I do very much enjoy the transfer of power aspects and enjoy being in control. I like forced exercise activities and mild humiliation play. My former submissive and I had only recently began exploring water sports and I found that to be something I liked as well.

Other Interests: I enjoy reading, travel, fitness pursuits, music, and outdoor pursuits like camping, backpacking and hiking.

Goals: Honestly I am still quite attached to my former submissive and am not yet ready to become involved with another in a r/l relationship. First I feel it necessary to get past what I feel is a significant loss so that once I meet someone else, I can feel certain I am attracted to her for herself and not because I am trying to fill a hole left in my life. I have given thought to perhaps beginning with an online situation which would satisfy my own desire to remain involved in the scene and provide some outlet for it should such a circumstance present itself.

Philosophy: To met all relationships, even D/s relationships are an equal partership. The Dominant leads because he/she has been gifted with the traits to do so however I consider submission to be a beautiful and valuable gift that should always be appreciated and treated with respect. Without someone willing to submit I can not exercise my dominance and in teh same way, my dominance provides the means by which someone can experience and enjoy their submissiveness. I feel that there is always much to be learned and that no one possesses all the knowledge. It is my belief that both dominants and submissives must make it there goal to learn and grow so that a relationship deepens and does not become stagnant.

[bondage_master111]

hi Dear,

I am a bdsm master looking forword to hear from you.As I am a dominant,i would
like to have total controll over you.I want to use whips and canes for all disobey made by my slave.
she won't allow to do anything without my permission.
I really want to see red welts on my slave's ass and thighs..
If you can accept me as a master,you are most welcome to contact me

bondage_master111@yahoo.com


with love
master

[R_B26]

My name is Rich. My sub and I are very new to this lifestyle and really need some direction as to how to begin. Can anyone out here tell me how to start making this new lifestyle work??

[Oak]

Hi everybody. I've been into BdSm my whole adult life. Growing up with Hom and Harmony. My main interest is bondage, but I've got experience with the most- Caning, whipping etc. The only absolute tabu I have is "toilet" play.

[plainsman]

Hello

I'm the plainsman, I've been a master for several years. Lots of cyber experience, but little in real life.

I look at my self as someone who can introduce people to this lifestyle, but I choose not to collar slaves and totally control their lives.

If I can be of service please don't hesitate to contact

Plainsman

[OwningXposed]

I am OwningXposed, a derivitive of Cameras and exposing film.
My sub and I are new to this, Mild pain, spankings, and rope fun.
We are both 40 something.
We basically discovered BDSM in the bedroom by accident. And enjoyed it.
She is a good sub, but I am not a good Dom, yet. I need to get more assertive.

[Misschief]

Greetings and salutations..

I am Misschief, but My subs. know Me as Ms. Evangeline Byrne.. Lifestyle Top, not active in the 'scene' per se, but do audition slaves on a professional level and do fetish modeling..

I have been actively practicing since 2000 in real life only.. Never had a cyber-pet..

Power exchange, long-term ownership, behavior modification, etiquette training and roleplay are huge turn-ons for Me.. Also, leg and high heel worship; I have an insatiable fetish for thigh-high stockings, stilettos and corsets.. Love leather, allergic to latex..

No brown showers, age play (young stuff), infantilism, etc..

Expect My $.02 from time to time..

[Warmaster]

My name is Martin, and http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/me...57-Marlene38ee is my wife.
In time, depending on how long it takes them to get it together, the other Mares and Fillies (Brianna, Lhana, Fumiko, Mei-Xing and Wanda) will be joining this site either with individual profiles, or a 'group' profile.

I'm a long-time Dominant, with 20+ years of experience, and am still learning new things, refinements, and such.
I did not ever intend to have a harem...but that's what happened. Brianna talked to Lhana, Lhana talked to Fumiko and Mei...Marlene talked with Wanda.
Now, I have 6 women to care for, look after, love, and base my life around and on.
I never intended such, but they all bring much to this Household and I am glad they're here.

In regards to various devics and toys and such, I make a lot of my own. Then I KNOW they're made of proper quality materials and there's no potential of harm from a bad day on an assembly line, and the girls appreciate the time and effort that go into such.
I am a Tempered Dom, meaning I adjust mood and harshness depending on how any of the girls behaves, but I'm not shy on caring and compassion., and they know they are safe undr my hand.

It can be tricky balacing Life, Lifestyle and such with 6 women in the mix, but they understand that which does make things considerably easier.

I'm pleased to meet you, my fellow Doms, and am looking fwd to reading your posts.

[dom1964]

Hi am master D have been around this scene for over 15yrs now and am always here to answer any questions anyone might have i still dont consider myself an expert because i think every slave teaches a master something as the master teaches them.

[suchaminx]

Hello and welcome MasterBluePrint,

to quote an old saying - Age is but a number ~smiles~

Have fun, explore the forums and call into chat too

~hugs~ minx

[MasterBluePrint]

That is very true minx.. still something that puts alot of people off but I will get through it. I am enjoying my youth and am just here to help.

If your in the South West enjoy the sunshine

[Aesop]

I don't think you have to worry. We're perverts of all ages 'round here. Welcome to the forums.

[Havensov]

But what if you just introduced yourself on the general forum page.... Oh well, recap

Haven
26
2nd Gen Dom
Make chainmail and leather
Love corsets and fishnets

Other then that, Just here to share ideas, get some new ones, and get to know others with similar interests.

[TomOfSweden]

I'm 31 years old living in Stockholm. I was thrown head first into this because I lost my virginity to a masochist. Before that I had always felt shame over all my sadistic tendancies. My parents are hippies which meant that they had a very judgemental view on what love was all about, and S/M didn't fit into the mold at all. From my part there was no hesitation. I had always been into S/M my whole life. I just had never been able to put words on it or come in contact with anybody in the scene. This was years before the Internet.

Emotionally I was a mess up until about 23. I was emotionally abusive and overall a complete idiot. I made my problems everybody elses. My life was fast and hard. I had no trouble finding submissive girls, I just had problems taking care of them. Needless to say, I caused a lot of pain, and even to myself since I loved these girls.

I matured, found and married a wonderful woman who became my slave. She wasn't the slave who taught me the art of being a good Master but she got the full fruits of it. Nothing lasts forever and we just recently separated. I think it's fair to say that we grew apart, even though we shared a wonderful six years together and still love each other. Even though I still miss her life overall is very good now.

Fetish-wise I'm into humiliation, piercing, watersports and rubber. In that order.

Right now I'm looking to growing emotionally. I want to "cash in" on my emotions by exploring them to their fullest. That's where writing comes in. My wounds are a bit fresh to start anything new at the moment so I'm just flirting around.

I'd never heard of on-line domination until I came to this board. It's definately something I'd like to explore more, (thanks for the guided tour Suchaminx).

[Ellviah]

you seem interesting

[IAmCanadian]

Ok, time for me to finally post here.

I'm 29 year-old Dom from Canada. For most of my twenties I've been cycling through an unfulfilling triumvirate of boring vanilla relationships, half-assed online BDSM relationships, and being single. I've been inspired by some of the stories I've seen here, and some of the people I've met, to dedicate myself to the goal of meeting a submissive with whom I "click" enough to achieve a 24/7 (or near it), master/slave relationship. Relationship-wise, I was rudderless for a long time, but having arrived here and looked around, now I know this is what I want.

In terms of kink, I am a sexual sadist with a strong focus on (and talent for) verbal degradation and humiliation. Because of this proclivity, my counterpart would have to be a masochist, someone who would thrive on such treatment where conventional women might falter. I seek a submissive who enjoys being treated like a subhuman, stupid bitch- and with a mind sharp enough to revel in the contrast between that treatment and how she would be treated in a "conventional" relationship. Note that I'm not interested in someone who is *actually* subhuman and stupid. Rather, I am searching for an angel with qualities of wit and beauty, who is willing to crash through the clouds and down to the sordid earth, just for me.

I have always enjoyed the mental side of S & M much more than the physical, though the physical side of course if the one that gets most of the press. I'm perfectly willing to inflict pain (with bare hands or impliments) but it's never been my first choice- I prefer to inflict pain by tearing down established feelings of self-esteem, self-worth, and female identity. This is why I need to find a partner who can see the appeal of setting aside her myriad feminine complexities and becoming a dumb, worthless cum-bucket for as long as we both can stand it.

I am hoping to meet a vibrant woman, equally stunning in intelligence and physical form, who is willing to accept my collar and live the rest of her life as my companion, servant, and greatest treasure. A sense of humor and a sharp mind are a great start. Far from a cowed and hesitant slave who will never act of her own accord, I am looking for a proactive beauty is forever trying to find creative ways to please me. Together, we will aim to strike a perfect balance between her submissive proactivity and my orders and requirements.

The slave is not giving so much freely for nothing in return. She is buying something with her service, trust, and love. A Master who will cherish and love her until the end of her life, provide for her every need, and protect her with his life. In giving me these things, she purchases fair and honest discipline and the sharpening of her mind and body, and the absolute relationship security that comes with being the only woman alive able to fulfill the desires of her Dom.

Obviously this isn't the sort of relationship a person begins with just anyone. I don't intend to enter it lightly, or with the wrong person. I also believe I still have a lot to learn about the lifetsyle, and I'm learning more every day. It may be unrealistic for me to hope for, but I'm not afraid to hope. Perhaps it will take years for me to find the right person. But when it happens, it will be worth it.

- FS

[meh]

master meh....i like to have my sub experiment and then collect the information of her thoughts, reaction, and how it made her feel, so i know how to give effective punishments and rewards, as well more fun assignments...*shrugs*

[suchaminx]

Tom, ~smiles~

pleased I could help and thanks for sharing

~hugs~ minx x

[qlight2006]

Hello and greetings from England, I am a Dom and my girlfriend is very submissive, we have been playing together for 4 years and I love her as much as the day I met her.

[master_lovealot]

I am 31 year old man living in India. I used to live in USA for a few years, but after a car accident I moved back with my family in India. I have a very creative mind, the world of BDSM intrigues me a lot. I am dominating by nature, and I have the animal insticts in me that makes my desires very passionate. I am in a wheel chair right now due to a spine injury, the accident changed me physically, but my mental power increased more...I am a very open minded person, so feel free to get in touch with me...we can even chat online

[dzire2pleeze]

Hi there, qlight, welcome to the forums.

Hello again, lovealot. thanks for telling us so much more about your situation than you did in the intro thread. i am confident that you will enjoy yourself here and meet lots of warm and caring people with whom to chat.

[master_lovealot]

I love to be honest, any relationship is strong if the base of it is strong....so honesty is best policy

[TheDeSade]

Well, I finally worked my way down the forums list to this and decided I would add my 1.5 cents worth.

I am 52 years old, Dominant, sadist and admitted hedonist. I have been interested in tieing and dominating females for as long as I can remember. In fact, my first sexual rememberance is the hard on I got when I thought about ties up the little red head down the street and doing nasty things to her. The fact that I was about 12 years old, had no idea what nasty things really were, and that she was 15 didn't make a difference to me. I just knew I liked the sensations the thoughts brought on. I was hooked.

Now I am much older, not sure if I am much wiser, but I still like those sensations and now I have a much greater appreciation of what those "nasty things" really encompass.

As for the rest of my life. I spent 25 years riding fire trucks as a professional fire fighter. I have an MBA with a specialty in Human Resource Management. I am retired except for a small consulting practice and some part time teaching at the university level. I am currently considering returning to school to Pile it HIgher and Deeper after my name.

I have been married almost 30 years. Fortunately, we discovered early on that we were complementary personalities; she submissive and me dominant. It has been a wonderful time and I hope it lasts another 30 years.

We, at one time or another, have tried just about everything we could think of in the lifestyle. Some we liked and we made it a part of our lifestyle. Some we didn't like and we just don't do those things. Others like those things and we don't have a problem with that. We have done the groups thing, the play party things, etc. We find that now, our play is more intimate, more private and more intense than ever before.

I do not profess to be a professional at this thing we call bdsm, but I do know that in 30 years I have seen a lot, done a lot, experienced a lot, made a lot of screw ups, discovered some really neat things and come a long way as a Master and a Dominant. I don't know if any of it is anything that will help anyone else, but, like most Dominant personalities, I usually have an opinion and I don't mind sharing it.

If you have any more questions or want to know more, please don't hesitate to ask either here in public or in private if you want. I am open, accessible and more than willing to talk and answer questions.

TDS

[suchaminx]

~smiles~ TDS what a lovely introduction, thank you

I have only talked to your briefly but from that chat and the above intro your wife is indeed a lucky lady.

May your next 30 years be as good as the first 30

~hugs~ minx