When Doms hit on Dommes

[ValKyrie]

Perhaps some people enjoy the power struggle and believe they truly can win?

Or perhaps some men believe unconditionally that a woman's place and a woman's needs can only be fulfilled as subbie? Hence, they feel a need to teach some of us renegade women a lesson or two.

I can understand some of the allure of topping a strong, independent individual. In fact, my own sub is a very strong, powerful man and yes, this fuels my fire.

However, I recognize a great amount of strength in how comfortable and confident he is with the power exchange as it occurs between us. Having a sub that exudes strength and control in his daily life isn't like felling a tree. Rather, it is more like feeding and nurturing it.

(Slipping off topic, but he is on My mind this evening. )

Val

[Athenna]

:Grin: I say the same about my submissive. He's strong as a rock, but sizzles melts when i touch... (Shucks! i miss him, he is outta my hands reach for a while )

Its totally about how free we are with each other that he, without any misconceptions surrender his self to me, and that makes it so beautiful. Yep there are times when he is behaving like a brat and he does that solely knowing i love to tame him down , and its a damn superb power trip after i subdue him.

May be thats the same power surge a dominant male is trying to feel when he thinks he can tame me, and he thinks that it would be so much of fun, one of the best power trips. eh, what he doesnt get it that in previous scene there is an inherent emotion : Consent!! And that gives me the power to tame him in first place.

And the Dominant male doesnt see that probably!!!

AconitE.

[Barton]

Or perhaps some men believe unconditionally that a woman's place and a woman's needs can only be fulfilled as subbie? Hence, they feel a need to teach some of us renegade women a lesson or two.


Val

Barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen. Like I said a poser.