What was the first submissive thing you did?

[feisty sub]

pam.....you and me both

i could write a book.....if only i could catch enough breath to do it
lol
x

[bearbeast]

finially after all these years i have found someone to "take away" my inner pain and explore many avenues, at present it's only been a week and we have made outfits and restraints and had some fun. it does help that my Mistress Rhiannon knows how to work leather, but not just that but in all sorts of material from wood to metal. we have come up with a number of ideas, but some of it has to wait until we move and get a bigger place (oh keep your fingers crossed) we have just been given a brick shed (oh I've been thinking it's not really that big to put stuff in I've had a grin on me all day.
bye bye for now.

[cts81]

After many years of being a sub (only in my head) I told my husband. That was about a week ago we "played" with the idea in the bedroom a first but last night was the first time we stayed in the dom/sub roles out side of foreplay (although the whole experiance was like forplay to me). He told me first of all to take all my clothes off. After that I had to ask his permission for everything ie could I have a drink, cigerette etc... sometimes he said yes sometimes he said no. If I tried to reason with him he would tell me to shut up, once he made me turn round and touch my toes while he spanked me. He also made me stand at the back door naked (our nieghbours could of seen me) when I treid to cover myself up he pushed me further owards the door and threaten to make me stand out in the yard if I didn't do as I was told. I loved every minute of it I love him dommming me more than I even thought I would.

[Desdemon]

Hmmm. I'd always enjoyed being restraned by my bf's, but never felt particularly submissive about it. Usually I was the one making the suggestions, etc. So I've only recently begun discovering my submissivness. I think the first concious thing I did was the first time he had me call him Sir. It took me a couple of times to catch onto what he was expecting, and the tone in his voice...., once I finally caught on, when I said 'Yes, Sir.', well, I realized that this had begun to mean more to me than just a bit of spicy sex. I'd used the term, half jokingly, in email many times, but never in person.

Saying it still makes me feel extremely vulnerable...

[tkk098]

It's been a while since i've posted. Might as well post here. Anyway, earliest submissive things i can remember all involved getting tied up somehow. I just have some sense of wanting it to happen, thus it does. First actual thing besides that, wound up, unfortunately, being a guy 3 years younger than me. We were both teens at the time. I lost a bet, and if i lost, i was supposed to suck him. Well, my sub. instincts were kicking in, and i didnt really want to be a 'sore loser'. (Kinda sounds corny). So I did it that night, then I wound up doing it willingly several times afterwards (different nights, ofcorse).

Well. That's kinda awkward to get out. Anyway, i'm just bisexual. I dont consider myself a gay person, since i'm attracted to girls.

[jaro_99]

Oh that is wonderful! Really...I guess you felt some relief as well at him taking the news so well *grin* I wonder whether at some point you were regretting telling him at all!!!

Congrats - obviously you both share something very special.

[subbabe]

I'm fairly new to the idea of BDSM, but have received lots of spankings, and been tied up while submitting to various sexual acts. Interested in cautious experiment and now have a new Master to train me and show me the way.

subbabe

[vanessaevans69]

It was when I went for the interview to be the housekeeper for my now Master. I was told to strip off. As my new Master inspected my body he told me that I would have to shave my pubes. This was the first time that I had been naked in front of a man other than my father and my Doctor and I had never even considered shaving. It was soooo embarrassing.
Now that I am a permanent sub I am so pleased that I submitted rather than running.

Vanessa

[christa897]

There's just nothing like the first time someone bends you over the furniture and gives you a good hard spanking.
That was the first one, and there have been many more since.