Why is humiliation a turn on?

[His little one]

My last post came after being called away mid-writing... and there's far more conversation since.... apologies if it seems misplaced...



Perhaps I have a simple answer to that statement for you.

Think of the reverse. What ever your dominant's primary pleasure, whether it is a spanking, or whipping, hot wax, or just humiliating you... does he get hard because of it? Does he become lustful doing it to you? Is he having a good time? Do you love him any less because he likes doing it to you?

If you can love a dominant for consensually enjoying beating you, or debasing you, or tying you up, or whatever, then why wouldn't he love you more for letting him do it.

It never occured to me to look at it like that but it puts things in a differient light. Thank you.

[TheSeeker]

little one why are you over-analyzing this?
you seem to have a healthy and happy BDSM relationship
I am envious of you

does it bother you to be humiliated?

good vibes to you and your Master

[His little one]

little one why are you over-analyzing this?
you seem to have a healthy and happy BDSM relationship
I am envious of you

does it bother you to be humiliated?

good vibes to you and your Master

Lol. I think because I need to get off my ass and clean the house. It does not bother me. And thanks.

[brwneydgirl]

Lol. I think because I need to get off my ass and clean the house. It does not bother me. And thanks.

LMAO. Nice one.